It’s as if you called someone on the phone and said “Hi!” and then put them on hold!
Please do this instead:
Note that you get help minutes sooner, and you don’t make them wait. Instead, the co-worker can start thinking about your question right away!
You’re trying to be polite by not jumping right into the request, like you would do in person or on the phone. But Chat is neither of those things. Typing is much slower than talking. Instead of being polite, you are just making the other person wait for you to phrase your question, which is lost productivity.
The same goes for “Hello – Are you there?”, “Hi Bob – quick question.”, “Do you have a sec ?”, “yt?” and “ping”. Just ask the question!
If you feel it’s brusque to simply say “Hi” and ask the question, you can do something like this:
Additionally, asking your question before getting a reply allows asynchronous communication. If the other party is away, and you leave before they come back, they can still answer your question, instead of just staring at a “Hello” and wondering what they missed.
Some people like to probe with an initial “hello” to verify whether the presence status shown is true, hoping they can determine whether the recipient is near a device, then will immediately follow up with a call. Don’t do that either. If someone is able and willing to answer a chat message, it does not mean that they are also available for a voice or video call.
Instead of sending a call probe, or asking “hey, do you have time for a call?” (which is better but not great), you can try something like this:
This does three things: it time bounds the request, it gives the recipient some context, and it helps you remember what you wanted to talk about if the recipient can’t or doesn’t respond until later.
This version was inspired by the original website nohello.com. Acknowledgements go to the original anonymous author.